How NOT To Pick Up A Woman
Have you ever tried to pick up a girl at a bar only for her to laugh in your face? This probably happened because you have said something ridiculous or done something just as foolish.
Below are a list of things to avoid, when mingling with women. I am a women so I should know something about what it is we like.
A woman doesn't want you to say what she wants to hear, she wants honesty. There's no point in wasting time trying to get her to have sex with you if your not going to put in the work to get to know her. If sex is what you want then just say that, you don't know what her response will be unless you ask. There are some women who want meaningless sex and nothing more. If you put in work to get to know her and she still doesn't like you...then that's your answer. There are twice as many women on earth as men, you will meet someone else.
Another tip is not to use money to entice a woman. For instance if you buy a lady a drink don't expect anything but conversation. Don't continue to offer drinks, (which she will take) it won't get you anything but a smile. Have you ever tried to ask a women home with you after the bar closes? Did she give you some story about having to take a friend home? EXACTLY its a story!
Women also don't like a man who can or wont take no for an answer. If she tells you no that is your answer. Don't be pushy and try and force yourself on her. This is a case where you could end up with your feelings hurt at the very least. You see if she says no, you really don't wanna know why she gave you that answer. Lets be honest you don't. More than likely your feelings will be hurt and ego damaged. That just leads to more problems for the next woman who really does want what you have to offer.
Never wait around expecting a woman to change her mind, change yours. A woman will find you more intriguing if they know that someone else already does. So if you give things a chance with girl #1 and they don't go as you would have liked find girl #2. This may change things, but if not at least you have someone who is truly interested in knowing you.
Don't appear to have tons of time to spend with her. BUT you must be willing to spend some time with her. This can be tricky because you want to be available but not desperate. If you are not dating she shouldn't know your every move. Hell if you are dating that's a bit much. Set things up as they will be, so if you hang with your guy friends on sat nights continue to. Don't change your life around so suddenly. That should be done to accommodate each other, not just her.
Lastly, yes women like a sensitive man but not a cry baby. Don't act a fool because you got rejected, save that for your friends. If you act out in front of her, it makes you look foolish and trust me now you'll never hear from her again. She may even be angry and disgusted with you over your behaviour.
Good luck men, hope this helps you.
Below are a list of things to avoid, when mingling with women. I am a women so I should know something about what it is we like.
A woman doesn't want you to say what she wants to hear, she wants honesty. There's no point in wasting time trying to get her to have sex with you if your not going to put in the work to get to know her. If sex is what you want then just say that, you don't know what her response will be unless you ask. There are some women who want meaningless sex and nothing more. If you put in work to get to know her and she still doesn't like you...then that's your answer. There are twice as many women on earth as men, you will meet someone else.
Another tip is not to use money to entice a woman. For instance if you buy a lady a drink don't expect anything but conversation. Don't continue to offer drinks, (which she will take) it won't get you anything but a smile. Have you ever tried to ask a women home with you after the bar closes? Did she give you some story about having to take a friend home? EXACTLY its a story!
Women also don't like a man who can or wont take no for an answer. If she tells you no that is your answer. Don't be pushy and try and force yourself on her. This is a case where you could end up with your feelings hurt at the very least. You see if she says no, you really don't wanna know why she gave you that answer. Lets be honest you don't. More than likely your feelings will be hurt and ego damaged. That just leads to more problems for the next woman who really does want what you have to offer.
Never wait around expecting a woman to change her mind, change yours. A woman will find you more intriguing if they know that someone else already does. So if you give things a chance with girl #1 and they don't go as you would have liked find girl #2. This may change things, but if not at least you have someone who is truly interested in knowing you.
Don't appear to have tons of time to spend with her. BUT you must be willing to spend some time with her. This can be tricky because you want to be available but not desperate. If you are not dating she shouldn't know your every move. Hell if you are dating that's a bit much. Set things up as they will be, so if you hang with your guy friends on sat nights continue to. Don't change your life around so suddenly. That should be done to accommodate each other, not just her.
Lastly, yes women like a sensitive man but not a cry baby. Don't act a fool because you got rejected, save that for your friends. If you act out in front of her, it makes you look foolish and trust me now you'll never hear from her again. She may even be angry and disgusted with you over your behaviour.
Good luck men, hope this helps you.
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